Dating my ex girlfriend

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I haven't talked to her since but i know she dated a guy for about a month in february.

Now she is dating one of my good friends and im kinda pissed about it. I don't know about you but I look at my friends ex girlfriends as off limits..I wrong?

Queer communities are often small and insular, and once you've found one, you tend to hold on to it for dear life.

It's difficult to meet people you're romantically interested in beyond an already-defined circle, and outside of your city's queer scene, most people you run into are likely to be straight.

" This is the status I was greeted with this week on the Facebook page of one of my dear girlfriends.

My knee-jerk response was "Duh, who wouldn't be pissed?

They wholeheartedly believe that it's wrong, disrespectful, and if a friend did that to them, they'd never talk to that person again.

" Oddly enough, after viewing some of the discussion on the comment thread, I realized that my judgment might have been a little harsh.

I'm not trying to generalize, but most of my female friends talk about past boyfriends, dissecting why their relationships didn't work.

Editor's note: Audrey Irvine is a senior assignment manager for CNN.

Her experiences in the dating world inspire her "Relationship Rant" column.

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