I've never been to the Philippines, Winston, but after spending a month in Thailand I'm willing to believe everything you say about it.
It's not hard to meet girls in Thailand, it's hard to get rid of them.
I lived in Mexico for a little over a year and dated a lot of Mexicanas.
Below are some things I learned about the women of Mexico.
I tend to be a serial monogamist and always in a relationship so I get sex very regularly. “No, but he’ll probably have one.” And I’d sigh and grab a condom of my own to hand to her. The sheer act of having condoms meant that they were planning on possibly having sex with someone they weren’t currently dating, and were therefore acting “slutty.” These girls would risk STIs and pregnancy over admitting that they had sex on their minds.
I’ve had lots of sex partners (I’m in my 30s and have been sexually active for half my life so the numbers add up) but I have only had 1 one night stand. During my freshman year of college, I was known as my dorm floor’s “condom lady.” I would hang out with the girls, hear them talking about hooking up with guys they had been flirting with over AIM, and I would hand out condoms to the girls who needed them. Soon, the word got out, and girls would show up at my door with a sheepish smile, asking if I had any extras I could spare. A decade later, slut-shaming is still as prevalent as ever — and I meet woman after woman basing her self-worth on her sexual behavior, attributing shame to any sexual behavior that is outside relationships and any number of sexual partners that is beyond her personal definition of an “acceptable” number.
Skip to content Winston -- what this guy is saying is that because Western guys don't share the Thai prejudice against the darker-skinned Issan girls we're missing something. I just got back from Thailand BTW and can't wait to get back to my honey- colored new friends. IMO the Thai fetish for white skin is ludicrous, and I'm pleased to make my own choices without the help of any self-appointed Thai beauty experts.
Winston -- what this guy is saying is that because Western guys don't share the Thai prejudice against the darker-skinned Issan girls we're missing something. I just got back from Thailand BTW and can't wait to get back to my honey- colored new friends.
But that’s like judging Chinese food based on the takeout places in your city and never having set foot in China.As her website tagline reads, “follow your heart, but take your brain with you.” In a chat about online dating, she told me that she had met her boyfriend “Ken,” a Korean who’s lived in New York for ten years, online. Actually, before meeting Ken, we had been chatting online for two months, before I arrived. He is playing.” Many times I ignored him, but he kept sending messages. I didn’t tell him when I arrived in New York because I wanted to talk to more guys, haha! After a night date, the next morning he would find another thing to do. “You’re my girlfriend so you don’t need to worry about anything.” I try to pay but he says, “no, no, don’t pay.” He’s kind. If you’re safe and smart about sex, it doesn’t matter whether you’ve had 17 partners or 200, and the right future partner will not care about that number whatsoever.